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Monday Ideas for School Counselors

Weekly articles for school counselors with ideas on how to resolve typical school situations with students, teachers and parents using the solution focused approach.

The Perfect Gift

The Perfect Gift

The perfect gift we give students is helping them discover their own strengths and possibilities. A holiday reflection on solution-focused work as meaningful gift-giving. ...more

Respect

December 08, 20251 min read

When the Problem Isn’t the Whole Picture

When the Problem Isn’t the Whole Picture

A reminder that a child's diagnoses aren't the whole story. Look for exceptions and strengths - small routines and supports that become the roadmap for lasting change. ...more

Exception Seeking

December 01, 20251 min read

Gratitude, Hope, and One Good Conversation

Gratitude, Hope, and One Good Conversation

A heartfelt Thanksgiving message celebrating the small wins, meaningful connections, and quiet confidence that school counselors bring every day. ...more

Respect

November 24, 20251 min read

When We See Differently, Students Show Us More

When We See Differently, Students Show Us More

Discover how shifting from problem-focused to strength-based perspectives transforms how we see students and helps teachers recognize capability over deficits. ...more

Respect

November 17, 20252 min read

Mid-Semester Momentum is Here

Mid-Semester Momentum is Here

Take a moment this mid-semester to notice what's going well and build on your successes. Recognize the extraordinary work you're already doing as a school counselor. ...more

Teacher Relief

November 10, 20252 min read

The Magic of Asking Different Questions

The Magic of Asking Different Questions

Discover how asking different questions can transform "difficult" students by helping them see their own exceptions and possibilities for change. ...more

Exception Seeking

November 03, 20253 min read

From Slump to Spark: Finding a Mid-Semester Boost!

From Slump to Spark: Finding a Mid-Semester Boost!

Help students move from mid-semester slump to renewed motivation with solution-focused questions that highlight their resilience and create doable next steps. ...more

Motivating Students

October 27, 20252 min read

One Size Fits All! The Secret of the Solution-Focused Approach

One Size Fits All! The Secret of the Solution-Focused Approach

Discover why the Solution-Focused Approach truly is one-size-fits-all - it's not about techniques, but a mindset that shifts every conversation toward hope and possibility. ...more

Teacher Relief

October 20, 20251 min read

When Students 'Opt Out': A Solution-Focused Reframe

When Students 'Opt Out': A Solution-Focused Reframe

Reframe "school refusal" as "opting out" to create safer conversations with students who aren't attending school. A solution-focused approach that honors student wisdom. ...more

School Safety

October 13, 20252 min read

Got Friendship Struggles?
Try Discernment Counseling and the Solution-Focused Approach!

Got Friendship Struggles? Try Discernment Counseling and the Solution-Focused Approach!

Learn how Discernment Counseling principles can help school counselors guide students through friendship struggles with three clear paths forward. ...more

Motivating Students

October 06, 20253 min read

The Power of Being Unstoppable

The Power of Being Unstoppable

Discover what it means to be an unstoppable school counselor. Learn how quiet persistence and curiosity unlock every student's hidden brilliance.Discover what it means to be an unstoppable school coun... ...more

Respect

September 29, 20252 min read

Need Solutions? Look at the Flip Side

Need Solutions? Look at the Flip Side

Discover how to uncover students' hidden strengths beyond their problems. Learn the flip side approach that transforms challenging students. ...more

Exception Seeking

September 22, 20251 min read

Any Change Can Start with One Conversation

Any Change Can Start with One Conversation

Transform challenging student behaviors with two simple questions. Learn how solution-focused conversations can spark change without resistance and help struggling students find their own path forward... ...more

Motivating Students

September 15, 20252 min read

Hope Starts Here: Beginning the School Year with Solution-Focused Vision

Hope Starts Here: Beginning the School Year with Solution-Focused Vision

Start the school year by planting seeds of hope in your students. Learn how to see past problems and lean into possibilities, transforming how you connect with students from day one. ...more

Motivating Students

September 08, 20252 min read

Invisible Victories: Celebrating Your Unseen Impact as Educators

Invisible Victories: Celebrating Your Unseen Impact as Educators

Reflect on the quiet but powerful impact you've made as an educator this year. Discover how to celebrate these "invisible victories" and use them to recharge yourself and your colleagues for the summe... ...more

Teacher Relief

May 19, 20252 min read